Toby Lieder

Dating Coach/Matchmaker
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Thank you for spending the time. It has given me a sense of direction and focus what to be noticing when looking through profiles, and what to question when making reference calls. You have allowed me to trust myself in choosing the important things I want, without it disregarding what I will need.

B.G - Melbourne

Dating Coach
& Matchmaker

Toby coaches singles or parents who want personal support from the beginning of a shidduch through breaking the plate and throughout the engagement period


Find out more about Toby's special work from articles that she's written, exclusive interviews, and published works


Toby helps couples overcome roadblocks in their relationship  


Toby, mother of 14, lectures and coaches parents. Here she shares tips for overcoming obstacles in parenting

About Me

Mrs Toby Lieder is an experienced Dating Coach, Shadchan/Matchmaker and Educator with 40+ years experience.

Toby delivers Dating and  Shidduch Coaching to singles or parents around the world via phone, Zoom, and Whatsapp video. 


Toby has a warm, empathetic, no-nonsense style.


Toby has seen it all in her long career as a mother of 14, and as successful Shadchan/Matchmaker she has made many happy matches.

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