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Toby Lieder

Dating Coach
Working with Mrs. Lieder enabled me to clarify my goals and priorities in dating.
She is warm, kind and compassionate. It is a pleasure speaking with her!

-M.F.  New York

Toby coaches singles or parents who want personal support from the beginning of a shidduch through breaking the plate and throughout the engagement period

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About Me

Toby Lieder is highly experienced Dating Coach, Shadchan (Matchmaker), and Educator.


Toby delivers Dating and  Shidduch Coaching to singles or parents around the world by phone or Whatsapp video.  Her coaching provides personal support from the start of a shidduch, right through to breaking the plate.


She has an empathetic and warm no-nonense style that tells you the situation as it is. She has seen it all in her long career as a mother of 14, and as a successful Shadchan who has made many happy matches.

Toby is also a qualified Parenting Coach, delivering long-distance personal coaching to parents in need.  She is the proud mother of 14 children and over 30 grandchildren.


Toby delivers lectures around the world, captivating and entertaining her audiences with her humor, inspiration and deep insights gleaned from 42 years experience in raising her family.

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