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Toby has been matchmaking for over 40 years. During this time, she has honed her ability to match singles of all backgrounds based on their core values and personality traits. In recent years, Toby has formalized and perfected her approach, creating a bespoke interview process that allows her to build a personal and meaningful relationship with each client. This approach enables her to identify the most suitable candidates for her clients, based on their unique preferences and needs.

Dating Coach

Complementing Toby's position as a Matchmaker, Toby offers dedicated coaching throughout a singles dating journey. With her warm, empathetic and non-judgmental approach, Toby puts singles at ease during what can be a highly stressful time, providing singles with a newfound sense of clarity and confidence. 

Relationship Coach

Toby is an expert in various kinds of relationships, including those between parents and children, teachers and students, and spouses. She provides coaching services and produces inspiring articles and videos on how to improve your relationships.

Matchmaker Academy

The all-new 'Matchmaker Academy' is an in-depth online course delivered by Mrs lieder.


Drawing on her proven methods and strategies, she takes trainee matchmakers step-by-step through her proven process of successfully navigating singles through a fulfilling dating experience.

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