My Story

Mrs Toby Lieder is a world-renowned dating coach, Shadchan, educator and lecturer. Toby is passionate about bringing people together and impacting future generations. 


She draws on her life experience as a mother of 14 and has coached hundreds of singles on navigating the dating scene with clarity and confidence.

40+

Years Experience

300+

Singles Interviewed & Coached

100+

Shidduchim Made

"If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting what you've always gotten"